Have you ever been in a situation where you say something and a few seconds later, the thought crosses your mind, ” O my word, did I really say that”. You wonder, is there anyway to retract the statements…unfortunately that’s a tough one… Once shot, the bullet does not return to the barrel.
The tongue is one of the most important organs in the human body, not for it’s function in aiding with food and drink, but for the power of speech that it produces. It can project some of the most inspiring, motivating praises and compliments, to becoming from amongst the lowest of low, through flinging across some of the most destructive and heart-breaking comments ever. This small piece of flesh gives a lot of healing or causes a lot of ‘bleeding’..
So, here’s 3 simple tips on refining the use of the tongue;
1. Only speak when you really need to.
Whoever said that human beings need to constantly keep their tongues busy through speech. We shouldn’t speak merely for the sake of conversation. It often leads to backbiting, slandering or mere hearsay.
2. Never say a lot when angry.
Comments made when angry are the type that are most destructive. One feels humiliated and regretful and it takes a long time to get over the words spoken.
3. Always choose your words carefully.
It only takes a few seconds for the mind to rearrange words in a better and more caring and wise way. This will do a lot for you in any type of conversation and relationship.
So, next time you speak, tap on the above 3 advices. It will save you a lot of trouble and gain you a lot of praises….
(I hope this hasn’t been a mouthful!)
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